OK Hayabusa... I have been following this post... and here is some more advice for you, take it as you wish.
1- You used the wrong approach when it came to resolving a problem. So the 2nd buyer contacted you and ranted... OK... not politically correct either, but then again you just threw fuel in the fire by posting on it and making it public. When doing that, you never get a sympathy vote... because the people that are on the other guy's side will attack you as well, while the people giving you the benefit of the doubt won't want to get involved and will not post.
2- Take it from someone who knows... ... NEVER .... NEEEEEEEEEVER write a post under emotion. Calm down, go have a beer, go to the movies, go do something to take your mind off of it all, and THEN write your post... to the other guy only!!!! Try not to make it public. It will assuredly come off MUCH less aggressive and much more productive into fixing the problem.
3- Don't delete your original post, eliminating all possible traces of your credibility. If you have nothing to hide (and I read your original post... didn't seem like there was anything wrong there... you posted your cab + monitor - NeoGeo stuff for 150$), then by deleting your post you create doubt.
Sparky
PS: Wisdom??? Nope... just experience from working at a corporate level for the last 5 years. I have gone through stuff at work that makes RGP look like preschool and CGCC and MAACA like church!!! I am not kidding!! Writing politically correct emails is a science!!!
Long story story short...not what I bought... fair enough we all get screwed sometimes and am a big boy... I inquired about purchasing the missing parts....was told not to PM him anymore.....got pissed at that for a reply...he is childish and somewhat of a crook IMHO
And to think that I had nothing to do with the hayabusa drama this time (the therapy must be working) ... although I would have thought that the previous banning would have taught him the lessons that he needed this time around.
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CheffoJeffo : i got banned because you guys made fun of my prices , advertisement , Typos ,
People were making fun of your prices and repeated postings of the same items a long time before you got banned.
I have always presumed that you were banned for your attacks, posting gay porn (not sure why you would think that was a good idea) and generally being antisocial. You called people liars, picked some fights and lost your cool when you got called on it.
The threads are still there and were locked before you could delete all of your postings, so there is little question as to what got you banned. You were let back in, I stayed away from you and then you proceeded to do the same thing again anyway.
Cheers.
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i told you that the second time you used ''f words with me'' & you seemed all mad & angry shooting me all the way....
when you originally sent me Pm to say thank you so much (ect) I was very confused & mad to be bashed first thing in the morning
When you did PM Me i was Banned already..... I couldn't connect.... so that may explain it.
seeing that -----> i did email you at your email listed on CGCC.ca(profile)
also: (check the time when it was sent it was around the time you probably PM me
Check it out......
CheffoJeffo : i got banned because you guys made fun of my prices , advertisement , Typos ,
& now i get banned the 2nd time for Selling something to someone Who decides to sale it on MY NAME .... that trully makes me a criminal
& the other guy the guy that sent it to b1buwg97 made arrangement & bought it from me? when will you bash him & make post on him?
Hey hayabusa...do you have a name I hate calling you that...anyway I did not get any messages from you PM, email or pigeon...anyway we are adults (I assume) try again terryATvirtualsolutions.ca or PM me here...this ALL can be corrected you know. contrary to what you may believe, I am not hard to get along with at all, check the posts I am a swell guy.
I never knew for the deal between you & rick i don't know anything from the time it left my house until you had it in
All he kept saying ( i hope not to be stuck with it.... dunno what was the meaning of that) maybe i can find the email that he said that
WHat did you & ''highspeed talked about'' send me all that on email....
I sent him a email aswell i was mad of this because it was a deal between me & him that changed into me & him & you.... & the original seller got flammed badly....
im more mad at him that anything else also when i started typing i was mad at the situation of (i drop my price to make someone happy & just when i thought i fixed my reputation for a little while on CGCC. (until i relist a broken afterburner & virtua fighter heh) it all blows up...& i was in complete when i mean complete it's total confusion & frustration on both sides...
from now on I will not trust any ''deal'' like that for sure... but still i look forward to reach an agreement
I never knew for the deal between you & rick i don't know anything from the time it left my house until you had it in
All he kept saying ( i hope not to be stuck with it.... dunno what was the meaning of that) maybe i can find the email that he said that
WHat did you & ''highspeed talked about'' send me all that on email....
I sent him a email aswell i was mad of this because it was a deal between me & him that changed into me & him & you.... & the original seller got flammed badly....
im more mad at him that anything else also when i started typing i was mad at the situation of (i drop my price to make someone happy & just when i thought i fixed my reputation for a little while on CGCC. (until i relist a broken afterburner & virtua fighter heh) it all blows up...& i was in complete when i mean complete it's total confusion & frustration on both sides...
from now on I will not trust any ''deal'' like that for sure... but still i look forward to reach an agreement
& take REsponsability for someone Else.
Pm me
Sebastien, 3rd time I say it... sarcasm and washing your dirty laundry in public will get you nowhere. Terry has offered nicely to resolve this in private, may I suggest that it be done so. This sarcasm is making the whole situation unecessarily ugly. Simply email each other, or call each other and simply resolve this.
Do you realize that all this is simply over a simple piece of wood? Let's all be civil and fix this in private and nicely.
Sparky
PS: Yeah... I simply want to reiterate to all that although the occasional T&A pic (and D&A for our few female readers! ) can be funny and enjoyable, I won't tolerate any gratuitous or distasteful porn posts with malevolent intent. If post a pic to get a laugh, it is fine once in a while... but do it to insult people, that isn't civil. That's demeaning. I don't want to censor anything, but I can if needed.
Sparky
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... NEVER .... NEEEEEEEEEVER write a post under emotion. Calm down, go have a beer, go to the movies, go do something to take your mind off of it all, and THEN write your post... to the other guy only!!!! Try not to make it public. It will assuredly come off MUCH less aggressive and much more productive into fixing the problem.
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